It's now been two days since my friend told me she's pregnant. I wasn't sure how I was supposed to act around her anymore. I also realized that some of the texts I'd sent over the past couple months regarding other pregnant women haven't been kind. So I found my girl-balls and apologized for them. She had no idea what I was talking about. That's good? I also felt like I was going to lose my best friend, because who else was I going to talk to about how I felt. So I re-found my girl-balls and asked if it would bother her if I talked smack about other pregnant women. "Not at all."
Lesson learned: just because your friend is going through a new part of life doesn't mean she's going to forget the things that brought you together in the first place.